RelaxDamit! Let it Go!
Me giving others advice on letting things go is more than a little ironic. I had a major friendship breakdown in the mid 80’s and it took me over 20 years to let the bitterness anger and maybe even hate go. All those negative feelings had been festering inside me for years. I had since moved out of state and had no contact with the person in question. Then 7 years ago on a visit back home I looked up the old friend to say hello. I did not want an apology, and I did not come to flat out tell him that I forgave him. We sat, had a beer, and talked about what was going on currently. Hopefully it is a lesson I won’t forget.